I had another post planned and written for today, but I got this email last night and decided it was more important. A man told me he went through a divorce recently and has been feeling resentful towards women in general. He’s new to game and the red pill, and after seeing how things work first‑hand, everything feels hopeless and pointless. The key is learning how to drop this resentment without becoming a bitter misanthrope.

What he’s feeling is absolutely normal. Anyone who finds game through a failed relationship is going to start to feel resentment, even if he was always good with women. Learning that women lie to themselves, their families, and their friends in pursuit of some elusive hypergamy‑driven ideal can harden a man and turn him bitter. The key is understanding that women are acting on biologically driven impulses, not random malice, and then turning that knowledge into a tool instead of a weapon

Athol Kay’s advice is to stop shifting all the blame onto her, accept that you made mistakes, and focus on self‑improvement so you don’t repeat them with the next woman. The real problem is an inability to forgive, and the path to forgiveness is understanding her point of view. If she’s just a normal woman, looking back lets you see why she acted as she did and lets you let go of the resentment while still holding her accountable.

If she’s bat‑shit crazy, the process changes: you simply thank god you’re unshackled, drown in pussy, and repeat. The point of game is not to become a bitter misanthrope but to become a better, more refined man. Resentment is a refining fire; it hurts, but it files down jagged corners and shapes you into the kind of man who can dominate his environment instead of being dominated by his past.